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5 Things to Put Into Practice When Asking For What You Want So You Can Actually Get It

One of the greatest mysteries I’ve noticed in my life is the power of asking for what I want and actually getting it. The feelings I experience are staggering and far beyond words. Amazing.

But I have also experienced this great power at work in my life when I’m not clear in my asking. The inner dialog goes like this… “Well you know, I kinda don’t know or I don’t really want to be specific about what I want kinda of thing.” Know what I mean?

And the results in these moments are the same. I get what I kinda sorta thought I had asked for.

The experience is also staggering and far beyond words. Mainly due to the unnecessary disappointment I am now forced to endure. It’s like a “what the freakin’ heck is this” sort of experience.

It’s crazy, I know.

But here’s what I’ve come to know is true. When you get something that you believe you’ve asked for and you’re disappointed you lacked clarity.

How do I know? Well if you got what you actually wanted there would be no disappointment.

So get this…

Where there is no clarity of thought there is only chaos of the mind.

When you are not clear in your thoughts about what you want, you will be on the receiving end of the chaos in your mind.

Where there is no clarity of thought there is only chaos of the mind.

Let me explain this a bit further.

There are three things which are vital to the outcome and experiences we have in life. And we have absolute control over them.

  • Our mind
  • Our time
  • Our money

Each one is under our complete control to do and will what we want with them.

Yet, often times we abdicate control of them. And then scream, kick and fuss when don’t have the things we desire and want in our lives.

And in the words of Napoleon Hill in his classic book Think and Grow Rich,

“Truly, ‘thoughts are things,’ and powerful things at that, when they are mixed with definiteness of purpose, persistence, and a burning desire for their translation into riches, or other material objects.”

You have absolute control over your mind, which is the keeper of your thoughts.

Knowing this is critical if you want to ask for what you want and get the real deal. Not some counterfeit.

The core ingredient is the alignment of your thoughts to the thing you say you want. Nothing can come to you without your invitation of it through your thoughts. Just like everything comes to you based on your thoughts.

I totally get that it isn’t always easy to express your desires. Too often we get caught up in worrying about what others will think of us. Like, will they see us as pushy or demanding when we put a request for what we want out into the universe? Or we may harbor fears of being rejected, turned down or utterly dejected.

Does any of this sound familiar to you?

Well here’s the thing… asking for what you want is a necessary part of life and you need to do it to get what you want.

So, here are five things I want you to put into practice everytime you want something.

1. Ask With Love

When you ask for what you want, first get settled in your heart on what you want. Make sure your feelings for it resonate at their highest levels, which means from a place of love and peace. Also, get revved up and excited about what you want to manifest in your life. Don’t ask when you are focused on what you don’t want or if you are asking from fear. Be clear and see it clearly before you ask.

2. Ask with Awareness

We’ve all heard the phrase “you get what you ask for”, right? Well here’s the deal with that… Every ask comes with a cost and you have to be aware of the cost before you ask. For instance, asking your client to pay a higher rate for your coaching package may mean you’ll have to have a fierce conversation with your client. If you are successful in your ask, that increase may come with increased commitments, responsibilities, and expectations. Are you ready for that? That’s the cost you’ll have to pay. So, the bottom line… Be aware of what you are asking for before going in.

3. Ask With Belief

When your belief is other than “I deserve what I’m asking for,” then you’ll be hard-pressed to get it. Think about it. If you don’t believe you are worthy enough to have the things you say you want like,…

  • Having $10k or more flowing into your business every month like clockwork, or
  • Having the clients you’re working with eager to sign up to work with you again, or even
  • Having a leveraged business so that you have the money and the time to take more than one vacation a year, whew!

If high personal self-worth is a challenge, then consider transforming your mindset. When your belief is contrary to what you say you want, you need to open up to receiving by removing the contradiction. Listen, trust and believe that you can and will receive so the universe can deliver.

4. Ask With Commitment

When you ask for what you want, make it with a commitment. You want to take some time and ask yourself if this is something you really want. Does it come from the heart? Will it fulfill a goal or a dream that you desire to have or to achieve? Only when you align with your true desires and are committed to what you want will you have the courage and conviction to pursue them. Your ask must come with commitment.

5. Ask With Faith

It is important that you ask for what you want with clarity and specificity. Asking for and receiving what you want means keeping the faith that it takes to get it. Even when your present circumstance and situation look contrary. Stand strong believing and moving towards the mark.

Final Thoughts

Putting this five things into practices takes being a wildly ambitious female entrepreneur. But hey – that’s The Millionairess Entrepreneur way.

I’ve also found that the more you practice asking, the easier it gets. Especially as you allow yourself to be open to receiving.

And remember, it shall be unto as you believe. So bold and daring and go for it.

How do you ask and manifest? Got a thought about this? Drop me a comment below and let’s dig into the conversation. ♥ME♥

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